You know, I’m having a hard time understanding the direction this Aziz Ansari #metoo movement is heading towards. Not because I don’t fundamentally get what it’s about as a woman. But because I feel like where it’s heading is confusing... So it started with women...
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In my line of work, I hear about the ‘friend zone’ a lot, especially in the dating industry. I get it - a lot of men are frustrated about not being able to break the barrier of romantic/sexual involvement. Especially when you really get to know a girl and like her - a...
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You know, I often think about the idea we all have of that one couple that have been together all their life and manage to still be in love. The 'relationship goals' couple. You know the couple I’m talking about - the old couple cuddling on a park bench that you may...
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There’s so much I want to do with my life. But I'm insecure... I’ve been trying to find my feet. It’s been 9 years since I left law school. And in that time, I’ve accomplished a bunch of things. Maybe more than most. Maybe not.. I can’t measure where I’m at in my...
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Ahh, my period. The mood swings in women... I thought I was growing out of the pain, the cramps and the vulnerability. Every other day, I feel motivated and excited to accomplish my goals. Today, I feel jealous. Jealous that I’m not a man. Every other day, I love my...
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I’ve spent much of the last days with new and old friends. Which got me thinking about how to make new friends... Before I decided to start travelling, I didn’t make many new friends. A handful since high school, and that’s being generous. And one of the biggest...
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And he left today. And I’m left with a mixture of optimism and sadness. Right up from the moment I pushed my nose on the glass, looking on as he went through customs until now as I lay in my bed alone in this huge empty apartment. Yes I know, I feel like I’ve been...
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So he’s leaving tomorrow most likely. My heart feels like it’s expanding with the sheer amount of love for him. Yet my body is anticipating heartache at not touching him or getting the jolt of love whenever I want for two whole months. Or rather, being able to. Since...
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He’s taking off back to Sydney, Australia and leaving me in Chiang Mai, Thailand. He’s done with moving around and wants a home somewhere safe, like the Gold Coast in Queensland, Australia. He wants not to have to worry about Dengue-ridden mosquitoes and asian...
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2017 for me was kinda shit. Maybe it’s because I’m getting to the end of my twenties and have become less hopeful about life as I used to be. I don’t remember ever looking at a year ending and actually feeling happy to let it go. 2017 was this year for me. I mean on...
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